The epic alternative

Ask yourself what in your current situation is really making you unhappy, and what have you not yet considered that could solve it. Once you have answers, consider them as possible solutions.

Alternative solutions may not sound that attractive, but it is more realistic.

When we need to make a decision, we tend to ask "What should we do?" However, it narrows our thinking to one right decision.

If we ask the question: "What could we do?"  it broadens our decision-making frame, because we can consider multiple futures. Could ask what if, what el...

• Identity. Ask your friends or colleagues, "what is the one thing I'm doing or failing to do that you think is getting in the way?
• What is the one thing I could change about how I run our weekly meeting that would be an improvement?
• What is the one thing th...