Shikita ga nai

Focus on what you can control. Solve the problems that you can and tackle what is in your influence, but accept the things that are out of your control and that you cannot solve. Let them go.

The Circle of Control distinguishes between what we can and cannot influence. This Stoic concept reveals three categories:

• Things fully within our control: our judgments, values, and choices
• Things partially within our influence: outcomes we can affect but not ...

• The single most important practice in Stoic philosophy is differentiation between what we can change and what we can't. What we have influence over and what we do not.
• There's something called Serenity prayer: "God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the cou...