5. Tell an Optimistic Story ✨

The stories we tell in our families shape how kids see themselves. If they keep hearing, “He’s terrible at time management” or “She’s just not a reader,” those labels start to stick. Instead, flip the script.

Say things like: “You have a real gift for making people feel welcome” or “Your imagination always surprises me.” And yes, it has to be real. Kids know when we’re faking it.