8. Make Other People Come to You – Use Bait if Necessary - Deepstash
8. Make Other People Come to You – Use Bait if Necessary

8. Make Other People Come to You – Use Bait if Necessary

When you force others to act, you set the terms of engagement. Make them come to you, and you hold the power in the interaction. Use attraction, enticement, or manipulation to draw others in.

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