The Illusion of Caring: When Check-Ins Replace Deep Inquiry
We do not ask, What keeps you awake at night? We do not ask, What have you lost? We do not ask, What is it like to be you?
No, instead we check in.
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In today’s hyper-connected world, our smartphones have become extensions of ourselves—ubiquitous companions that often hide a deeper struggle. This post delves into the paradox of digital dependence, where the relentless urge to check our devices isn’t simply a habit but a response to a profound inner void. It reflects on how our constant reach for distraction is less about seeking connection and more about escaping the overwhelming weight of silence and self-reflection.
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